Bailee Toledo

@bailee-toledo

Active 2 years, 4 months ago
I have been divorced since Nov. 2018. But I still miss him. He now has a live in girlfriend who is married with young children. I so want to let her husband know what is going on but I just can’t do it. I want to be vindictive but I just can’t. I just bought a new house about 6 months ago so I can’t move to another state anytime soon. While […] View
  • Bailee Toledo posted a new activity comment 2 years, 4 months ago

    I am scared for your emotional state. You have created a dating persona through texting but you listed several turnoffs about the new person. If they are turn offs now, I can’t see how they will ever be turn on’s. Don’t sell yourself short just to have someone to date. This is a new chapter in your life and you do not have to settle. You c…[Read more]

  • I have been divorced since Nov. 2018. But I still miss him. He now has a live in girlfriend who is married with young children. I so want to let her husband know what is going on but I just can’t do it. I want to be vindictive but I just can’t. I just bought a new house about 6 months ago so I can’t move to another state anytime soon. While…[Read more]

    • Hello Bailee, I’ve been divorced about two years after a 35 year marriage. My wasband left me for his therapist. I have a group of friends but they just can’t comprehend the huge change in my life. They are all happily married and when we’re all together I feel like a 5th wheel.

      I didn’t ‘need’ to work if I stayed on a very tight budget, but I…[Read more]

    • I am really sorry to hear that your church hasn’t been as welcoming as it should be. It may be time to find a new church. A lot of churches are having online services and it could actually be a good way to check a few out. Maybe check out my denomination: Episcopal. Our Music Director, she is such a godly woman, and she has been divorced twice.…[Read more]

  • I am new to this group and have been divorced for a year and a half. I can’t seem to move on and my wasband was giving me false hope that we would maybe get back together. I am 64 and had my future in sight. There was no divorce in that picture. A month ago I thought we were on agreeable terms. This past week I think he was just using me to g…[Read more]