Court

@courtneyhuynh

Active 8 years, 11 months ago
  • Gabriella,
    So many of us are here for similar reasons and have much in common. I’m 45 as well… married for almost 20 years….have 2 teenaged boys. My ex was so controlling to the point that my kids and I were […]

  • Leslie,
    I’m not sure how to go about setting up a private message on this site…However, feel free to click on my name under “members” and my previous posts are listed if this might help. I’ve been on a roller […]

  • Leslie,
    Oh my goodness…as I read your post, we have much in common. I was married for 19 years and have 2 boys ages 16 and 13. They are also very close to their father which, in the end, I am thankful for. I […]

  • I relied on my ex-husband quite a bit that first year after our divorce and with him still living just 2 minutes down the street from me, it made it hard to break away. I had the exact same computer issue soon […]

  • Court replied to the topic so sad in the forum A Place to Talk 9 years, 4 months ago

    BriarRose,
    I’m very sorry that you are experiencing such pain. Your thoughtful and encouraging words have helped so many of us in dealing with difficult times. Please take time for yourself and remember that you […]

  • Court posted a new activity comment 9 years, 4 months ago

    Avayd Lacy,
    I think you will find that this group of women will help provide the strength and encouragement that you need. I also received the daily blogs…when I would open my email, I felt like I had a friend there who understood what I was going through. I recently ended a 19 year marriage that was full of emotional and financial abuse. My…[Read more]

  • Court replied to the topic Sharing kids in the forum A Place to Talk 9 years, 4 months ago

    Thank you both for your kind words…I can’t even tell you how many times I reread your messages. I do need to remember to accept my feelings and not judge them. I feel like I forever am questioning myself and my […]

  • Court started the topic Sharing kids in the forum A Place to Talk 9 years, 4 months ago

    I’m having a very difficult day. I was out running errands with my 13 year old as his cell phone rings…he’s having a conversation with someone as I’m trying to figure out who. (Thinking it was his dad or his […]

  • Court replied to the topic Sadness in the forum A Place to Talk 9 years, 5 months ago

    BriarRose,
    Your kind and supportive words are so very appreciated!! I go through stages of becoming emotional and then it passes. I have to remember that of course, today with images of him over at the house and […]

  • Court replied to the topic Sadness in the forum A Place to Talk 9 years, 5 months ago

    I had a very emotional week…my ex-husband is in the process of moving out the the house that was foreclosed on. He just called to tell me that he is closing on a new home in March. I would assume that even after […]

  • Court and Profile picture of BriarRose5BriarRose5 are now friends 9 years, 5 months ago

  • NewChapter,
    Your situation is so much like mine…I decided to move out of our home of 10 years that we built and made our own into an apartment with my 2 sons. I took very minimal and have tried to make our new […]

  • Court replied to the topic Sadness in the forum A Place to Talk 9 years, 5 months ago

    Thank you for the thoughtful replies…I know things will get better in time. I have many blessings in my life and this new group of friends is one of them.

  • Court replied to the topic Sadness in the forum A Place to Talk 9 years, 5 months ago

    Well, I finally gathered the courage last weekend to step into the house where my ex husband lives…the home we built, I decorated and did every ounce of painting, yard work…everything. The bank will take over the […]

  • Court replied to the topic Sadness in the forum A Place to Talk 9 years, 6 months ago

    BriarRose5,
    I do need to be strong and hearing your words helps me tremendously. All of my kids’ personal belongings have remained at the house with their dad over the past 1 1/2 years. When I moved into my […]

  • Court commented on the post, Christmas Day 9 years, 6 months ago

    I’m glad to hear that your son found the courage to join your family gathering. We just returned from a trip to Chicago to see my parents, my sisters and their families. I could tell my boys felt “different” and […]

  • Court replied to the topic Sadness in the forum A Place to Talk 9 years, 6 months ago

    Thanks for your encouraging words…I do blame myself almost daily. Both of my kids have changed and one is losing interest in school. The anger they are showing is being directed at me and I worry that years down […]

  • Court started the topic Sadness in the forum A Place to Talk 9 years, 6 months ago

    I’ve gotten on this site numerous times but this is the first I’ve shared…the holidays have been hard, so this seemed to be the right time to reach out. I’ve been divorced just over a year but it feels like it […]