Juno Valley

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  • Ahhh, perfect.

  • Juno Valley posted a new activity comment 1 year, 11 months ago

    Beautifully put Louis. I pray you come through this portion of your situation with wasband with as little pain as possible. All the best, Juno

  • Juno Valley posted a new activity comment 1 year, 11 months ago

    That is truly awful. Make sure to keep notes, especially since he’s not paying child support. The 180 these guys pull is just astounding. There are many good hearted women here who want to support you. I suggest you go to the Forum (upper right, click on) to find more stories about how we’re all coping. All the best, Juno

  • Juno Valley posted a new activity comment 1 year, 11 months ago

    Hello Darwin,
    I’m so, so sorry that this has happened to you. When I come to the forum I’m always sad to see new women here. I welcome you with open arms, but I know what it takes to come here and the pain is so deep and overwhelming. Please don’t think you have to have all the answers right away. When we first are hit with a cheating husband…[Read more]

    • Thank you so much I really need that today I found out he’s buying all her kids new beds and is taking her to the same resort he took me and is still not paying child support was feeling so down today then I read your message and it so mice to know there is people with good hearts out there thank you

      • That is truly awful. Make sure to keep notes, especially since he’s not paying child support. The 180 these guys pull is just astounding. There are many good hearted women here who want to support you. I suggest you go to the Forum (upper right, click on) to find more stories about how we’re all coping. All the best, Juno

  • Juno Valley posted a new activity comment 1 year, 11 months ago

    Thank you Skyla, Sometimes it just feels overwhelming but thank God we have this safe place to come to.

  • Juno Valley posted a new activity comment 2 years ago

    I’m so sorry for your pain Thumbelina. This is a safe, loving place to vent and tell your story. You might try the Forum to reach more women. It’s been a little over two years since my breakup from my wasband of 35 years. He left me for his therapist and they now live in a beautiful Victorian. The pain can be all consuming, I know, but I also…[Read more]

    • Dear Juno,
      I appreciate your words of encouragement. Today, it occured to me to be thankful for the good times we had over thirty-four years instead of being bitter…..I don’t even know if I should be feeling thankful?

  • Juno Valley posted a new activity comment 2 years ago

    Hello Bailee, I’ve been divorced about two years after a 35 year marriage. My wasband left me for his therapist. I have a group of friends but they just can’t comprehend the huge change in my life. They are all happily married and when we’re all together I feel like a 5th wheel.

    I didn’t ‘need’ to work if I stayed on a very tight budget, but I…[Read more]

  • Juno Valley posted a new activity comment 2 years ago

    Hi Tara, I’m so glad you’re still “seeing” your engaging man! So he’s fat, just more to love!

    • Hi Juno,
      Good to hear from you! He is very unhappy about his weight, he refuses to send me a picture of himself! I am filled with fear and trepidation often. I’ll be sailing along having fun talking to him, then I just feel removed from the conversation. sigh…time will tell.

  • Juno Valley posted a new activity comment 2 years ago

    Hello Henry, So good to hear from you. We should all try to do a Zoom meeting one day. I’m glad you’ve found someone interesting. You deserve it after the hell you’ve been through. xoxo

    • Hi Juno,
      How have you been? I’ve missed hearing about you. Yes, a zoom meeting would be nice. Let me know what’s been going on! XoHenry

  • Juno Valley posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago

    I know. My wasband was my best-friend, or so I thought. I would love to talk to him about what’s going on, it’s so surreal, and we always talked over everything but that’s all in my past now. Facing things alone isn’t easy but it’s not as hard as I initially thought it would be. I lean on friends, my daughters and my MDR sisters and they get…[Read more]

  • Juno Valley posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago

    I’m so sorry you’re going through this. My mom sounds like yours. She asked me what I did to have such a wonderful guy leave me. She has since passed so I don’t like to talk about her. It’s awful that you feel like you have to stay in your bedroom. Even with this awful virus going around we are allowed to go out for walks. Maybe getting out…[Read more]

  • Juno Valley posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago

    It gets better, I promise. Hang in there. We’re here for you.

  • Juno Valley posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago

    I know Winnie. They were such a huge part of our lives and it takes so much work to get over them. I still miss mine even though I know he’s a rotten bastard. I think doing the plan, coming here and to the forum, and reading (I’m reading and trying to do “Divorced and shit at it”) are all things that help. It does get better, I can attest to…[Read more]

  • Juno Valley posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago

    My dog snores just like my wasband used to and I still dream of him every night. I’m so used to it now, it doesn’t bother me anymore but was really rough in the beginning. It’s been 2 years for me too.

    • I feel like this isn’t really happening. Like it’s a mistake or bad dream
      I am in therapy and it does help but the pain is so awful. He wouldn’t even see me to talk. I had to meet him in coffee shops to sign the separation agreement and tons of other documents. I felt hurt and invisible and humiliated. I will get i to my full story soon. I ju…[Read more]

  • Juno Valley posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago

    I’m so sorry Drowsy. I welcome you with an open heart but I’m so sad to hear another story of a family breaking up. I had all the same fears, anger and feeling of loss that you described. These cheating cowards are the lowest form of life for all the pain they cause their supposed loved ones.

    I was married for 35 years and he left me for his…[Read more]

    • Hi, Juno
      Two years of thinking he is still here. The memories of what we once had torture me. But I am trying. I am 67 and could retire but I still work. I see my girlfriends regularly and go to movies or for a bite to eat. I see my family. I just want the pain to go. To wake up and not think of him as soon as my eyes open.

      • I know Winnie. They were such a huge part of our lives and it takes so much work to get over them. I still miss mine even though I know he’s a rotten bastard. I think doing the plan, coming here and to the forum, and reading (I’m reading and trying to do “Divorced and shit at it”) are all things that help. It does get better, I can attest to…[Read more]

  • Juno Valley posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago

    I’m sorry you’re hurting Timmy. Can you tell us a little bit more of your story? And welcome to the MDR Sisterhood – Juno

  • Juno Valley posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago

    I’m so sorry you’re going through this after such a long marriage Minka. My wasband too said “I’m done”. No marriage counseling, no discussion, the end after 35 years. We too have two children, girls, who are taking it very hard. The difference is he left me for another woman, I was totally blind-sided. I thought we’d never get divorced and…[Read more]

  • Juno Valley posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago

    Hello Blondie, If there is anything I can tell you with any surety, it’s that it does get so much better. Doing the plan, praying, coming here, all of it helps immensely. God Bless.

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