Kobe Rancho

@kobe-rancho

Active 2 years, 2 months ago
I have been living with a close friend for 6 weeks. It hasn’t like I expected. A little friction. It has been 10 months since the divorce. I just starting crying at the register at Walmart. This divorce has put me in low income. I was married for26 years. I have been looking for housing. So many changes. Has anyone experienced crying like I have View
  • I have been living with a close friend for 6 weeks. It hasn’t like I expected. A little friction. It has been 10 months since the divorce. I just starting crying at the register at Walmart. This divorce has put me in low income. I was married for26 years. I have been looking for housing. So many changes. Has anyone experienced crying like I have

    • Yes, I’m not divorced yet, but my husband left me for a woman colleague 6 months ago. No warning. We were married 34 years and had planned to retire together. Now he and his mistress are retired, living in her paid for home. I’m paying rent to live in the house we shared and just sold. I’m working 2 jobs to supplement my meager pension and care…[Read more]

    • Oh yes and crying does help so do not hold back.
      Sam Black

  • Kobe Rancho posted a new activity comment 2 years, 2 months ago

    I guess it will take longer than expected. I moved out in the country one month ago and it is a hard adjustment.

  • Kobe Rancho posted a new activity comment 2 years, 3 months ago

    The counselor said he feels quilty that is why he keeps texting and buying me gifts. He doesn’t want to get back. He is 9 years younger than me. I think he is going through a mid life crisis.

  • Kobe Rancho posted a new activity comment 2 years, 3 months ago

    He keeps texting me to see how I am doing. He even bought me a new radio and speakers for my car two weeks ago. The counselor tells me not to answer to his text. It is hard for me not to do so. I didn’t answer his last text when he asked if I got into the apartment and how I was doing.

    • Kobe, I’m sorry I do to know your story, but is he wanting to get back together or what? Are the two of you trying to make it work. I so, have you discussed this with your counselor? I suppose you have to follow your heart and be logical of the reality of what is going on. God Bless you.

      • The counselor said he feels quilty that is why he keeps texting and buying me gifts. He doesn’t want to get back. He is 9 years younger than me. I think he is going through a mid life crisis.

  • it is hard for me to accept this after 26 years of marriage. I have been going through this process for 9 months and still have mixed emotions.

  • @blondie-southside It is hard for me to accept after 26 years of marriage. I have been going through this process for 9 months and still have mixed emotions.

    • I feel the same, it’s been a year since DD and I filed for divorce in early June 2020, and still having mixed emotions after 41 years of marriage. I know there is no going back. Hurts like heck, I cry, get strong, cry again the continue to move on. It’s all we can do and inch by inch we get stronger. We can’t do this alone, thank god for this…[Read more]

      • He keeps texting me to see how I am doing. He even bought me a new radio and speakers for my car two weeks ago. The counselor tells me not to answer to his text. It is hard for me not to do so. I didn’t answer his last text when he asked if I got into the apartment and how I was doing.

        • Kobe, I’m sorry I do to know your story, but is he wanting to get back together or what? Are the two of you trying to make it work. I so, have you discussed this with your counselor? I suppose you have to follow your heart and be logical of the reality of what is going on. God Bless you.

          • The counselor said he feels quilty that is why he keeps texting and buying me gifts. He doesn’t want to get back. He is 9 years younger than me. I think he is going through a mid life crisis.