Thank you… Really appreciate that prayer at this time

Oh yes…. Gas lighting definitely comes up in NPD. Just like 3 girls, I also had no idea what it really was until the research began a year after he left. The gas lighting part is to make you look like you are the crazy one. If you have ever seen the old movie “Gaslight” it’s about a man literally driving her crazy by misplacing things,…[Read more]

Miss Elainious, know you are not alone. I have had my husband call me crazy for so long, I believed it for awhile. He needed to save face in front of everyone he knows to make him self smell like the rise in this and make me look like I am crazy, selfish, turned fat, you name it. He is still doing it after my sister and brother in laws death.…[Read more]

I meant that they did not leave me on purpose

Thank you for everyone’s kind words. I am very much up and down but also grateful for people that love me. I’m starting with a new therapist soon. While my nephew was here… My son, nephew and I stayed up till 3 in the morning talking about the people we miss so badly and how loss feels and life in general. And was trying to express that as…[Read more]

Not a problem about the name. My dear Kosmo was my cat. My autistic son can only process that his aunt and uncle are just like Kosmo, he doesn’t know anyone that passed away. I appreciate all of the prayers and expressions of concern. It means a lot to have friends with me and online in this community that care. I just feel so sad and feel…[Read more]

Hi 3 girls, I haven’t posted for awhile either but I have come on to read. When I first joined here, I realized how much we had in common and after a couple of months of not posting I’m finding more commonalities. My husband too had an obsession with thinness. I knew that but dismissed it thinking it couldn’t possibly be that be an issue, but…[Read more]

Not to mention, I cut back so drastically on non essentials. It’s unbelievable

I get what your talking about. I’m in the same position. Husbands salary was cut in less than half and we doubled expenses by him leaving to get his own apartment. Nor to mention dating and travel. It doesn’t cover all our bills I’m going to the lawyer tomorrow to see what we can do. I’m left with this huge house with all the maintenance…[Read more]

Best wishes Angel and I hope you find a fresh new start in your life as a result of this trip

Very timely…. Thank you

Sending prayers!!!

Pretty bird. I will add you to my prayers. I’m sorry you are going through this. We all understand, we won’t judge and won’t rush your feelings. It’s the hardest thing

Angel…. I actually get that this is a work convention, but way the same room???? That makes no sense and is so inappropriate on so many levels. I would ask you friend to ask why one room and then to demand one room.

Hi Angel, can you clarify so things for me? When your husband told the family and employees that following Monday did he talk about all of the details? Did he say that he left you for the niece?