PJ Sunset

@pj-sunset

Active 1 year, 7 months ago
Hello everyone ! I a new here. Anyone here on a second divorce? Ugh. I never thought I would be here again. It is such a bitter disappointment . View
  • I cried through most of this chapter. I needed those words to point me forward. Thank you Suzy

  • PJ Sunset posted a new activity comment 1 year, 11 months ago

    Hi Joyful,
    Thank you for sharing. I just was curious about where you are in processing all the feelings . You answered perfectly and it sounds like you have a lot of changes to deal with. Your faith through the process is inspiring to all who read it. Thank you for sharing. How exciting your dreams and plans are for you! Go girl 😇

    • Hi PJ I do not have a clue about my feelings and how to process them or even to ask you what you mean….i could maybe chat on phone wouldn’t know how to start a discussion like this in a few words…

  • PJ Sunset posted a new activity comment 1 year, 11 months ago

    Yes I am new here.I have been reading the material and participating in the forum and doing the survival six. All of this has been helpful as I navigate through the grief of everything. I have appreciated the women sharing their stories. You are moving forward but are you struggling with anything at the moment ?

    • To Joyful and PJ Sunset: so glad you are here!! I found this site on a google quest! Not divorced yet but this site, book and master plan have helped me immensely! I am 60 and felt like I was the only woman who had been married for 35 years and now was single!! Never imagined this!! I am excited about a new life but also anxious and scared…[Read more]

  • PJ Sunset posted a new activity comment 1 year, 11 months ago

    Welcome Joyful! You sound like you are looking forward to your new life wth Gods help 🙂

    • Yes He has so much to show me and He plans to bring me into my purpose and destiny. I am moving forward and thanking God for what he has delivered me out of and is now turning it around for his good… I want to meet new friends and help others and reach out when I need help… PJ are you new here? I am wondering if you or others went over the…[Read more]

      • Yes I am new here.I have been reading the material and participating in the forum and doing the survival six. All of this has been helpful as I navigate through the grief of everything. I have appreciated the women sharing their stories. You are moving forward but are you struggling with anything at the moment ?

        • To Joyful and PJ Sunset: so glad you are here!! I found this site on a google quest! Not divorced yet but this site, book and master plan have helped me immensely! I am 60 and felt like I was the only woman who had been married for 35 years and now was single!! Never imagined this!! I am excited about a new life but also anxious and scared…[Read more]

  • Great reminder!!!!!”What has happened is done. And what he wants is clearer now than ever. You can’t change his actions, but you can change yourself. You can change your attitude about what’s next.” I am coming into acceptance of what has happened. However after almost a year of crying everyday or being angry as he’ll and then cying it’s fin…[Read more]

  • PJ Sunset posted a new activity comment 1 year, 11 months ago

    Welcome Pepsi!

  • PJ Sunset posted a new activity comment 1 year, 12 months ago

    My heart goes out to you. I too am struggling. Ugh everyday I have to remind myself each day it is a choice to let go of what I thought I was married to so one day I can be my happy self again. You are definitely not alone.

  • PJ Sunset posted a new activity comment 1 year, 12 months ago

    Hi Mighty
    So sorry to hear you are suffering. I know you arevin a dark place but you sound like a strong lady. I have a feeling you name being “mighty” is no coincidence! You are in the right place. I am new here too and everyone has been awesome. Rebel gave me advice on doing the survival six each day and that has helped me.

    • Thank you PJ, I am a very strong woman by my own admission and am refusing to be a victim in all of this as it will give him the victory. I am doing lot of self discovery and a lot of work on myself. I know that I will be a better person as a result of all of this but I suppose that all good things take time so I have to be patient with the…[Read more]

  • PJ Sunset posted a new activity comment 2 years ago

    Thumbelina my heart goes out to you. You are not alone. Extreme grief is so hard to go through. I am in the middle of wading through my own river of grief. I am new here but the support I feel is real. Thank you everyone.

    • Oh, PJ….thank you for your support. My daughter is due to graduate and I am supposed to attend with the ex husband…Parents only are allowed.

  • PJ Sunset posted a new activity comment 2 years ago

    Thank you Carmel. I am truly devastated by my situation. My wasband is completely not who I thought. My second marriage was 8 yrs and was happy or so I thought. I have a lot of sadness and anger. I was bamboozled and yes I need to look at my self. I do have some comfort in the fact that no friends or family saw this coming. I am also looking…[Read more]

  • PJ Sunset posted a new activity comment 2 years ago

    Yes it does help knowing that others are going through or have been through some of the same feelings

  • PJ Sunset posted a new activity comment 2 years ago

    Me too. Hello!

    • Hello, it would be nice to see everyone face to face but the good thing is that every stinging, hurtful, worry filled moment that we have, I am pretty sure all of the ladys here are feeling the same.. It makes me think when I am walking around in my house feeling a pain almost more than a body or mind or heart could bare, that there are all of…[Read more]

      • Yes it does help knowing that others are going through or have been through some of the same feelings

  • PJ Sunset posted an update 2 years ago

    Hello everyone ! I a new here. Anyone here on a second divorce? Ugh. I never thought I would be here again. It is such a bitter disappointment .

    • This is my second. The first was a short marriage right out of high school. I thought this marriage would be forever, and it was 35 years but ended anyway. I have spent the last year learning a great deal about how I got here and how sometimes it is out of our control. While I know it is hard, know also that you made the best decisions you could…[Read more]

      • Thank you Carmel. I am truly devastated by my situation. My wasband is completely not who I thought. My second marriage was 8 yrs and was happy or so I thought. I have a lot of sadness and anger. I was bamboozled and yes I need to look at my self. I do have some comfort in the fact that no friends or family saw this coming. I am also looking…[Read more]

    • Skyla replied 2 years ago

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