My husband and I are in the same house too. It probably feeds the addiction because there are good days and bad days. There are conversations about interests we have in common, including the house. Those conversations lead me to maybe…. At the same token the list of questions gets you thinking. What pushed you into separate rooms in the…[Read more]

Pain: Worried, Confused, Embarrassed, Overwhelmed, Trapped, Unsure, Betrayed. Awkward, Sad, Washed up

The divorce is not final yet and we still haven’t figured out what to do with the house. The accountants are analyzing the value of my teaching pension to determine how the finances will break down after the divorce. I am currently living…[Read more]

The final divorce is not in and I am still living with the man I married. He is social and brings me tea. He is in and out of the house, but closes the door when he is talking to someone on the phone. Because he works from home, he is here during the day. I am thankful that I have a job to go to each day. I threw away my wedding dress that my…[Read more]