Tootybruce

@tootybruce

Active 2 years, 6 months ago
I’m in need of much prayer. My divorce has been final 5 months, but still have much paperwork to be done. I’m very anxious and I’ve never been alone before. I was married 36 years. I’m seeing a counselor and taking medication, but cannot seem to ever get him and our family off my mind. Thanks for letting me share View
  • Tootybruce posted an update 2 years, 6 months ago

    I’m in need of much prayer. My divorce has been final 5 months, but still have much paperwork to be done. I’m very anxious and I’ve never been alone before. I was married 36 years. I’m seeing a counselor and taking medication, but cannot seem to ever get him and our family off my mind. Thanks for letting me share

    • Hello Tootybruce. Cute name. I was married for 35 years and wasband left me for his therapist. It is all so painful and overwhelming. It’s been two years and I still dream of him, but thank God there isn’t much pain involved. You’re doing all the right things to heal. You might consider adding one more that a close friend of mine suggested. He told me to write down our “perfect” marriage story from the beginning until I began noticing the pull to my wasband was becoming less. I saw my marriage with clear eyes instead of the rose colored glasses I been looking through. It was a great help to me to see our marriage honestly. My prayers are with you. Juno

      • Hello Tootybruce and Juno, we are all in the same boat. I was married 41 years, WASbend left me for a younger women he sought out online, friend of a friend supposedly, and fell in love with her and left his family. Just sold our house, and am just now looking into starting the divorce. It’s all coming to a head, and I like you Tootybruce can’t get what he has done to me and our family off my mind. As soon as I wake up, there it is.As each goes by, for now I am angry. I have to make this move and am not happy and pissed off that I’m where I am, because of him. It’s just not fair! Juno, it encouraging to know that two years later the pain has subsided. Some days I feel like I just can’t handle it, but then I reach out to God and trust that he has a plan for me. Just a little overwhelming, so I have to trust. God Bless You all.

        • Hello Blondie, If there is anything I can tell you with any surety, it’s that it does get so much better. Doing the plan, praying, coming here, all of it helps immensely. God Bless.

        • I was with him for 3years and married for 14. He got me to sign a prenuptial I did not understand and was ondating sites. Basically toxic remember better late than never to become free of any toxic relationships no matter how long. YOU ARENOW FREE to be the wonderful person I know you are. We are all hwrd fir you and each other. God bless and keep us all strong.
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